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Breakups

How to Get Over a Breakup

Breakups: most of us have been through one. Some breakups are quick and painless, others gut-wrenching and destabilizing. But what should you do after? When you can’t stop thinking about the person who broke your heart, how do you actually move on? Below, anonymous New Yorkers offer advice on how to get over a breakup …

Breakups

6 Steps to Treating the Pain of a Breakup

Nomar* was in love. He had never been happier. He and his girlfriend Marissa* were talking about moving in together and eventually getting married. For the first time in his life, he could imagine himself becoming a father. And then something seemed to go wrong: Marissa was tired and irritable when they were together. She …

Dating Tips

50 Best Tips for Dating Over 50

Whether you’re recently divorced, widowed, or just haven’t found the right person yet, if you’re on the dating scene at the mid-life mark, you’re far from alone. According to Census data, more than a quarter of adults between the ages of 45 and 59 are single. In fact, there are 19.5 million unmarried Americans over …

Relationships

The Gottman Relationship Guides

Description Ideal as a supplement to other Gottman materials, the pocket guides in this sampler are among our most effective for helping couples improve or strengthen their relationship. They are just a small selection of the tools and strategies used in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, world-renowned for helping couples succeed. Couples and couples’ therapists use …

Breakups

Dealing with a Breakup or Divorce

When a relationship ends, healing can take time. These tips can help you grieve your loss and start to move on. Why are breakups so painful? A breakup or divorce can be one of the most stressful and emotional experiences in life. Whatever the reason for the split—and whether you wanted it or not—the breakup …

Breakups

13 Tips For Breaking Up With Someone

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship . But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. …